lucky...
um... the original post's moved to www.xanga.com/cher_e2004liking the person who may not be liking u...
perhaps he likes sb else??? or just that he is not liking anybody at the moment???
for the former... it seems that there's no chance at all unless the one he likes doesn't like him (although that doesn't necessarily mean u've got the chance...) and thus this cycle goes on forever...
for the latter... there may be 2 cases... whether he's the sensible or "feeling-based"(sorry... running out of adj's) type...
i suppose for the 1st type... it may be easier... as long as he can't find any reason not to accept... (so... treat him really good maybe???)
while for the 2nd... have to give the right response... use the right word... do the right thing... in the right place... at the right time... in a right way... to the right extent... it seems that all depends on luck...
um... well... it's just my sudden feeling... it may not reveal my thoughts in the next minute...
anywayz... there's an optimistic way of thinking on this... he may like u... just that he hasn't realized that himself... maybe...???
although i'm not the optimistic type person... i'm certainly the "late-realizing" type... =P
well... if i have time for writing this kinda generalized stuff... maybe i should try to figure out my thought 1st...
have i realized that now??? maybe... probably... i think so... but I'M NOT SURE yet...
just that i tend to get really frustrated abt other ppl joining the "cycle"... i should probably accept that it may be just the character of the ppl... but if not frustrated... i'm annoyed somehow... >,< i hope that will not develop into aggression (uncontrolled behaviour)... um... sorry... that's a theory for behaviour of dogs and cats... not quite for human... maybe... =P
posted by Cherrie @ 9:35 pm
2 Comments:
hey cherrie...it is always a long hard path to be with the person you like. usually things never work out but you've got to be strong if you've already known what is it that your heart really wants. i think that's the most important bit - to understand your heart. then u'll know you'll never give up.
that's why...
i keep on mentioning A LITTLE MORE FAITH... although it just seems to be my instinct to change "targets" that quickly... =P
i always have no idea what i really want... >,<
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